Invest in YOUR house

Motivation

Successful person becomes An Inspiration to others and the God of his own life. Is it the skills which make someone successful and others failure/commoner? No! Everyone is blessed with one or the other skill. Still only handful of people make it to the success because they lack of determination to hone their skills and practice their passion to perfection. They easily let go their dreams wherein, one should keep tight hold. Achievers are asked about their mantra , planning and journey to the success which is often answered as “focused effort”. It’s true that it requires immense dedication and single minded persistent effort to conquer your goal and this is the reason not everyone becomes successful. Success is a result of hard work , dedication, determination, perseverance and opportunity. We set our goals and build our dreams but we lack positive effort to achieve it. No one achieved it just by setting goals but by working towards it everyday.

Only Positive thinking will not take you to your dreams

You will have to take positive steps to reach it!

Investment is the key to success…be it yours or someone else’s
It’s like investing the money. If you invest it for someone else’s house, he will become owner for that house not YOU. To become owner of the house, you will have to invest for your own House. We invest ourselves every moment in our office, school, home, play grounds and relationships. Make a fair choice! since the only reason of investing yourself is to fulfill dreams! How can you succeed if you are inattentively investing yourself in someone else’s dreams? Ask your inner conscience, if this investment taking you closer to your dream? Because any investment without Aim, caution and profit is a loss. You will loose grip on your dreams, then certainly you will not succeed. A wise investment can bring you closer to your dream about career, relationship, healthy life , harmony or any dream for that matter.

In a television show, the host invited the celebrity and then her friends and family was called upon. Nobody knew her friends who might have invested them selves for celebs dreams. The Celebrity was valuing her friends like a treasure. She told that her friend left her dreams and journey to stay with the her during her struggle days because celeb had fear of staying alone. Although it takes big Heart to keep your dreams at backseat to drive someone else dreams. Still, her friend was looking extremely timid, failure and modest in front of her celebrity friend, being valued part of her friends’ life and success might make her feel content but not successful . Although, nothing guarantees that celeb’s friend could be successful if she would have followed her dreams instead of supporting celeb “then struggling friend” but what if her friend had invested herself bit on her own dreams later or might have pursued her dream after helping out celeb. It could be her lack of determination and dedication towards her own dreams. It’s good to help others but one should keep note of their own milestones too. Nobody was ever sure of their success when they started but your hope and determination can make it happen!Mantra-21 (2)

Everything that’s hot not always gives warmth… ☕️

Fiction, love

Blue shady café with pillars, arch and the slanting roof. There hangs a yellow bulb ,inside the café. I sneaked into the café to escape the chilling winter of December in unknown city of Prague. I located the Billing counter and placed the order. Soon my eyes hit the perfect woody table with a woolen fur hanging on the chair near the window. I sat on the chair and my hot coffee followed. A Rich coffee☕️ with whipped froth. I tore the sachet of brown sugar ,stir and moved by the clunking sound of the spoon. The expertly crafted beans of the Latte made it delightful. Still the hot coffee could not conquer the bleakly feeling . Suddenly, A man dragged a chair and sat.. Granted his hand to hold my chilling fingers . His hands enveloped mine. Finally I could feel contented with the warmth of love . I was drawn towards him…

and then he proposed…

“My dear wife Bella, Let’s go home”

Coffee was indeed hot but sometimes all you want is warmth of love and coziness of relation…

A Girl at the Airport

Literature, travel

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first International Travel…

Okay see you then…and Lena moved to baggage drop on a busy airport…..It was her first trip alone…
She inquired the girl at the desk “Is the desk open for Lufthansa?”the girl replied “yes mam” Excited Lena went back to drag her luggage to desk but there was a long queue ,Even after inquiring first she was 5th in the queue 😦 doing all the formalities Lena reached the Gate to board the flight . Flight was delayed by 3 hours. On reaching gate Lena’s starving stomach reminded her of the pulao-rice dish which was in her bag, She opens the box and the smell of the food reached almost everyone around her like a wildfire, the crowed was gazing her with , judgmental looks ,she ignored them with her fake indifferent face and kept swallowing the food silently…
To pass 3 hours Lena phoned her friends about her adventurous plan and started observing people , Lena saw a lady with dozy eyes, swollen face in red sweater sleeping like zombie at the airport waiting for the same flight.

And then it was boarding announcement for the flight to Denmark.
Both the seats next to her were vacant in the flight. She hoped for some interactive person to sit next to her and then came the red sweater zombie lady settling her stuff near Lena’s seat and which led to 9 hours journey of Lena with this sleeping zombie. Making it a silent journey. The zombie was sleeping that Lena could not get the courage to disturb her to go for peeing. Leaving Lena into miserable condition she kept sleeping for nine hours. This zombie had strong senses of sniffing since whenever the meal was served she opens her heavy eyes keep it in front seat pocket and sleeps again. Finally she woke up to have that cold preserved food after nine hour of sleep and was sigh of relief for Lena since now she can move to relieve herself.

Literature-Ashort story

Fiction, Literature
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a literature on shed

little girl going through that

oh, she looked around and realized a contrasting world,

high school maths and graduation class,

she needed to follow the surround  ,

couldn't withhold her Literature's sound

 

she ran that race

of grades being unable to embrace....

with the lavish and fun, passion was missing in all she learns…

headed to seek all fields and backwoods

couldn’t  find the worldly goods...

Here, the tall dark man showed her dusty shed

beneath the autumn ,unveiling the leaves sunbaked

she got her repressed literature  , was overwhelmed...

she gave the gaze

and plopped down to write a new page ..

 

 

 

 

Breastfeeding in India

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Breast feeding is a blessing for the babies! In 27th year of breast-feeding week, campaign aims to promote policies that will encourage women and make it easier for them to breastfeed everywhere. A movement at the global levels. But on the ground levels ,Women are humiliated during breast-feeding. They are stared upon, videographed and shamed for feeding their infants. Women are helpless to breast-feed their kids publicly at bus stops, train stations, temples, restaurants because there are no cabins or lactation rooms at these places. New mothers are even more reluctant to feed their hungry infant because of the mistreating crowd around them. There is, neither an open mentality nor a closed cabin! Although they are “well equipped” with narrow minded thought process. Many women sit on the floor of a bus, train station to feed their baby. Mothers have even fed little infants in the public toilets at the bus stops. One can only empathize with it, if their food served in a stinky public toilet. If a women gets fortunate enough to find a chair and sit, outside a ticket counter or control room, the so called authoritative people will come and ask you to leave the chair and go somewhere else to feed the child! ” yaha mat baith, kahi aur pila le”. Surf the internet, there are thousand of stories narrating these disgusting behaviors .One section of the society believes that breast feeding is acceptable in the rural parts of the country and it’s an issue in the urban areas while the reality is, it entirely depends on a mother’s patience and strength to bear/ ignore the gazing eyes. If you accept the humiliation, then only you can feed in public. Oglers will Stare. Mostly women don’t raise their voice rather they try to hide themselves.

“Matratva” is most valued and preached in India but we are people who don’t stand for its liberty. “Ma janani hai, Srishti Ka Aadhar” hai but the same Janani, Maa and Aadhar will be humiliated for breastfeeding. To us “Matratva” looks good only when it’s in house behind the viel. We don’t have courage to stand for “Janani” . We can only celebrate power of Maa in festivals like navratri but when it comes to reality we shame the true kushmanda and Skandmata among us.

Navratri ki shubhkamnayein…

I wish this Navratri, Mother “Maa” will bless everyone with courage to stand for the mothers, to feel pride for every woman who breastfeeds and bless people with broad-mindedness to accept breastfeeding at public places,ithout shaming them.

http://www.newindianexpress.com/nation/2018/oct/02/cop-at-kashi-vishwanath-temple-misbehaves-with-woman-devotee-makes-video-of-her-feeding-baby-1880196.html

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/varanasi/special-room-for-breastfeeding-moms-on-kvt-campus/articleshow/66048275.cms

To: The Failed Entrepreneur

Motivation

“I knew that if I failed I wouldn’t regret that, but I knew the one thing I might regret is not trying.” –Jeff Bezos, Amazon Founder and CEO

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Becoming a business person and having an established organisation is a dream which is really pacing up these days with a very lucrative name called “Start up”. Each one of us is either indulged in it or have an acquaintance moving towards it… Start ups are results of dreams or circumstances

We have seen dreamers turning Entrepreneur and they are sometimes switching from different roles to entrepreneur

A fresher turning Entrepreneur

A successful corporate employee turning Entrepreneur

An unhappy employee turning entrepreneur

Company expelled employee turns entrepreneur

“Ideas are easy. Implementation is hard.”

You begins with a blue print and handful of people who trust yoy. Some say yes to your ideas, leaving an impression to motivate and others do not deny also, this gives you courage to keep heading towards your idea. In a startup Savings, Effort and Time is invested with Dedication. With Each day and night of struggle this dream becomes more firm and you starts valuing inputs, clients and ideas more than investments! Gradually money starts flowing. An entrepreneur is both ,a founder and a labor. Many times an investor. With each going day challenges change and the distance between you are your dreams keeps increasing with new milestones and difficulties on your way. Physically you are involved in gathering resources, clients and mentally you are scared of sinking to the failure. At hard times too, you try to keep strength and driving forward to save your business from nosedive. Then, what are the reasons which over ruled this effort and led to the fall?

What are major reasons for the failure of Startup?

Lack of skills: Mostly entrepreneurs find their co-founders from relatives or college friends, such co-founders are hired for their willingness to help startup, which overrules the basic imperative factor i.e skill set. Infact college friends would also have similar skill set and maturity as you, which leads to lack of variety in terms of skills and vision.

Team incompatibility: It has been vastly observed that in most of the budding companies complete team has only technical people who are managing sales and other domains. Moreover, Founders avoid to hire person who is more smarter and has better skill set than themselves. These insecurities land up a team with inefficient similar thinkers. Lack of trust, different dedication levels and integrity issues are major reasons for a start-up to end up at conflict and eventually fails.

Poor Market study: Not finding product-market fit, Inability to understand product’s requirement in the market and weak approach to access market efficiently. Most of the failures occur after product launch as they lag at selling product or finding right buyers.

Poor Business Interrution plans: Youth possess the enthusiasm but lack at handling business interruptions and crisis situations beacuse they do not have plan, backup and multiple connections for to handle issues like lack of material, transportation, climatic hazards, legal knowledge of their rights to tackle the crisis and emergency.

Lose Focus:The leadership is unable to set a clear strategy for the company and stick with it long enough to succeed, resulting in a lot of wasted money and energy from constant changes in direction.” Not analyzing fine line between stubbornness and persistence which often leads to wastage of money.

Eventually only 10%-20% start ups are successful and other just end-up in a year or two. What happens to the rest 80%

How does the failure looks:?
Insecurity and Stress
Depression
Investors asking for their money
Insufficient budget for family & living
Embarrassment
Struggle to get back on job or finding other sources of money

Its more important to focus on next step rather than failure

“Everything you want is on the other side of fear.” – Jack Canfield

“Failure happens all the time. It happens every day in practice. What makes you better is how you react to it.” Mia Hamm

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What can an entrepreneur do after failure of a business!

There are many options

  1. Getting Corporate job back again
  2. Working as a freelancer to get back your skills and confidence for sometime wherein you will be benefited with some salary as well and then switching to proper corporate job at renowned firm:Some people say, they have forgotten their skills since they have not brushed up their skills from almost a year or two as it was not required at their start up and now getting short listed at a company is tougher, They are not sure if they are still good at coding or operations or their work which were their skills during job, since they have not touched it from years . In this scenario start freelancing and working for some small startup which has same or similar software to work upon. This will help you in gaining some experience you some experience, brushing up your concepts and build your confidence to clear an interview in bigger firms.
  3. If you still have Funds, you can gain the required skills by learning , training and working in the same field for few years to improvise yourself. Later, you can start your own business once you are all equipped with knowledge, better planning, understanding on handle loopholes and all major aspects to make it a success

Can a failed entrepreneur get job in a company?

Yes. of-course! A failed entrepreneur is not only a failed personality but a hard worker who has potential to work 24 hours a day and 365 days a year, a risk taker and a planner. His dedication levels are extremely higher than a normal employee . He would have better experience or handling people, utilizing resources and ability to fight challenges which can never be learnt in a stable job. So in many ways your are refined and polished than a normal employee…

Finding a job:

  • Edit your resume and give meaningful title and keywords related to your skills, designation(founder/co founder Hr Head, project manager, analyst, SAS, SQL , MDS, C++ expert etc”)
  • Highlight your skills at search engines , appropriate companies seeking these skills will definitely get in touch with you.
  • You would have better chances of getting hired in a company which works in similar domain as that of your start up. Look for the companies which has similar product as that of your start up or similar raw material , you can approach them with more confidence and showcase everything you have learnt in your start up this will get you great chances of getting hired there and more experience in your passionate field . It will be easy to crack and get in the similar industry. They would prefer you because you would have thorough knowledge about their products, raw materials, client market and challenges. Such jobs will get you better satisfaction and experience for life. You would also learn about the mistakes you made at your start up.

Few companies will definitely hit you with the questions like

why should the company trust you? What assures that you wont repeat it and go back to some start-up again?
Well for this there are various ways to handle this question

  • Showcase your experience as you will show when you have worked in another company, like
    xyz company(founder, .net expert and Project manager) Experience 2 yrs
    this will highlight your skills.
  • Explain them upfront that having a start up has enhanced all your skills and you have ability to work with more integrity since you have already faced hardships of startup and would not like to do it now

As it is said, the success might have just postponed for that moment.You would definitely get success in life. You have tried something than usual and at least you would be satisfied with the effort you have put in with heads held high.

There are many books written on people who succeeded after massive failures. There are people who failed at their start upsand then succeeded at their jobs. In biographies you will find many such people who tasted failure again and again and eben worked at worked in corporate and smaller firms. They learnt , prepared , gathered the courage to start second business at their late 40s which were a massive success later. Keep preparing for your dreams and live that dream at the right time. Failure doesn’t mean you should leave your dream rather prepare your self better for the next time. You will definitely succeed it just needs right effort and knowledge. Learnt it today and prove it tomorrow.

“The failures and struggles of today will be the juiciest parts of your success story.”

Ways to make teens SELF-DEPENDENT AND CONFIDENT

Motivation

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  • Trust: Stop pointing your child for everything that goes wrong, Even if the reason is bad grades, marks, quarrels with friends or may be a relative. Although your child will also be guilty but LISTEN to them, this builds trust. They will Image result for trust your teenknow that there parents will always give them a  chance to say there point. They will be more open to share which gives them comfort at home feeling.

 

 

 

  • Set Rules and Encourage Communication: Teens are very sensitive and most of the children become rebellious at this age. Its delicate age wherein  parents need to be strict and soft together. You should take wise  steps which will be healthy for your relationship  with your teen. Nagging and Image result for teens and parentskeeping eye on each activity will be too harsh and teens get reluctant to spend time with family on over interference. Positive approach is to set some agreed upon rules for the house. Like , All will have dinner together or no phones after 10’ clock ,Everyone should turn up for family functions, Not more than 2 outing within Six months or something else which suits as per your family structure or timing. Such rules set automatic alarm to your child wherein your child will know his limits and will not find himself caged. This will make him comfortable as you will not be nagging kn everything and he will feel homely. It’s like liberty with rules. It gives good results when teens are Involve to set the rules. Ask ideas from them. Do not impose your rules on them, ask what good with them. How family should stay connected or can better understand each other. Once they feel you value their ideas, they will be more agreed when rules are set.
  • Praise efforts: Focus more on your teens efforts. Its good you Appreciate the result but its imperative to appreciate their effort and journey through that destinaImage result for praise your  teenagertion. Appreciate success but appreciate the pains he has gone through.Praise the scarifies he has made to achieve the success. This will help whenever he will fail because failure wont haunt him. Instead he would know, that you appreciate his hard work rather focusing only on rewards. Inculcate their belief system with power of hardworking. Remind them, putting effort and attempting is more important than the result.
  • DIY: Yes do it yourself. This really works well to teach them to be self reliant and confident hand in hand. Don’t enforce everything on studies and school. Share little responsibilities with them like they will make the dining table for weekend dinner. This will make him feel confident, responsible and he will feel like everybody looks upon him for weekend dinner. This will in turn give him happiness that he is doing his bit to make everyone happy. Or let him cook breakfast for everyone twice a month. All these are little happy habits that keep family connected and teens feel they are responsible and can do it. In long run they will be inculcated with the power of self reliance and they will have clear vision to achieve task alone. They will also know how to manage to get things done on time. They will also become organized.

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  • Teach them to face failure and Participate: Teens mostly avoid the things where they fear the failure. Teens fail to succeed  in Sports, Math, English or any competition because they smell their inability in comparison to others and moreover become reluctant to try it. Teach them, it’s really okay if they are not good today or failed today. It does not imply that the aim is unattainable. They can achieve it if they will continuously strive for it. Practicing a Image result for try you cansport daily will definitely improve them or revising the tough subjects will definitely bring their confidence and fetch them good marks. When they fear something, make them practice it daily. They will become comfortable with that topic in 4 -5 regular sessions.
  • Assertiveness: basic reason between failures and fighters.  teens tend to get either introvert or too rebellious when they are not able to grasp anything in school or coaching. Introvert teens feel ashamed and begin to fall behind iImage result for assertive  quotationnstead of asking a question.       Rebellious teens get rude and loud if things are not as per them. Here it requires the very fine skill of assertiveness. They need to understand how to ask in positive assertive manner. Assertive teens are observed by teachers as curious students, since they get their answers, there are less chances of them to lag behind. They understand the topic clearly in class itself. Also with friends too, they share better bond. They are heard in friends group and in future they make positive remark. Image result for assertive  quotation

 

  • Stories: teens hate to get nagged on everything. Give them a habit of reading positive stories/ inspirational stories. Stories of failure, struggle and motivation. The more they will read, somewhere they will be able to come out of their fears. They will understand that feelings of fear, shame are temporary, what matters most is their effort and who they are. These stories are true motivation. Since these are not mere words but the experimented experienced tales. Image result for read positive stories

 

 

Suggestion

Observe their passion

Understand the mind and interest of your child. Polish their skills which are as per his passion . There is always high chance of success in the field of your passion . It’s imperative ,in long run you will know your child’s interest and help him make career in the right direction. Give them best knowledge of everything and ask them to perform better. But as a parent it’s your duty to silently observe his inclination.

 

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I live uncertain yet I have dreams
I confine myself however I have wings

I am choking out wherein I can breath

I am warping to be garbage wherein I can settle for health

I know I can accomplish ,I will and I hone

In any case, I decide to simply postpone

I want to work for it yet I favor it to be served in plate

I aspire to much more, to write through day and the evenings till late

At that point, I ponder and abhor thing that’s hampering my zeal

To my wonder it’s me , my stupor which is overpowering my will

I have two lives, the stressed one which I live
And the one which my fantasies do weave..

Today, I choose to wear what I weave

and from this minute to experience my dreams.

Enjoy your Being

Motivation, women

Sometimes the more you try, the harder it becomes!

Motivation

When you begin to work on your goals to make your dreams a reality…it starts getting tougher, with more challenges, more practicalities and more anxiety…

I took the one less traveled by– Robert Frost

It’s similar to choosing a goal where you have no guidance. You have to search, research ,try, fail,try again and may be then, you will succeed…

I too started with writing a book which turned from a novel to novella, to novellete. It has squeezed in to a small booklet. Once I dreamt to make it a hard book with my name as an Author on it but now it’s more of a booklet… I had dreams, aspirations and moreover expectations from it but now it’s all anxiety,confusion and insecurities. I really do not know where it will take me… Does the effort I have put in till now, even count?… Discussion with publisher,efforts to find editor , mails to designers every thing done with detailing still the result is not satisfying me..??? What is my way to reach the goal?

A little bump on career track makes you rethink and question yourself ,if you are moving towards your goal or away from it. Is it the right path to your destination. There will be no road signs and milestones to have a check on your journey. You get worried for the realities.

I din’t come this far

to only come this far...

The only thing that can motivate to move each step is your belief. Belief gives you wings to aspire and keep walking… You just need to keep honing the skills and trust that it will work. Success is not easy and cannot be achieved in a day. If your goal is higher, you need to train your wings harder for higher flight… Train your self and work towards it.

If you haven’t felt of Quitting,

Your Dreams are not big enough

Dream big and set the goal. It’s not your duty to think how it will fall in place . It will certainly… One just need to have faith and determination. Let’s not think about it since your role is just to work towards it each day…

The Basal Body Temperature

health, women

Basal Body Temperature (BBT) is your body temperature at rest (wake up time). Every person has a unique basal body temperature; it is in slight variation to the standard body temperature.

Basal body temperature can be utilized to understand the variation in normal condition and as a primary symptom for unknown disease, be it high TSH(Thyroid), fevers and so forth. Broadly it is used for women as a diagnostic procedure in the investigation of Fertility and other gynecological endocrine disorders. Charting your Basal Body temperature is a way to estimate when you will ovulate, which will help in conceiving and avoiding pregnancy.

Before ovulation, your BBT may range from about 97.2 to 97.7 degrees Fahrenheit. But the day after you ovulate, you should see an uptick of 0.5 to 1.0 degree in your BBT, which should last until your next period. (You may notice your temperature occasionally spiking on other days, but if it doesn’t stay up, you probably haven’t ovulated yet.) If you become pregnant, your temperature will stay elevated throughout your pregnancy.

How to Measure your Basal Body Temperature:

Kindly note the few guidelines to follow while taking your BBT.

  • Take your temperature using digital BBT thermometer only before rising (before eating drinking, peeing, sitting) in the morning as any activity can raise your BBT.
  • Take your temperature at the same time every morning
  • You should take the temperature after at least three consecutive hours of sleep.
  • Keep your thermometer accessible from your bed so you do not have to get up to get it.
  • Use the same thermometer throughout your cycle if possible.

 

Temperature can be taken orally or vaginally but it’s important to be consistent throughout the cycle. Most common way is taking orally. Record the temperature and the time on the bedside chart of fertility app.

 

Note: This method is very economic and should only be used in absence of other reliable sources .

 

Varkala- Quick review

travel, Uncategorized

Varkala has one of  the best beaches in India… its beautiful to stay at a cliff and enjoy mighty of waves in front… The main attraction is for the sea food lovers and people who enjoy Novels… Swim the waves, bask the sun and cherish the warmth of the leaves of your novel…

Seasons to visit: feb and march: if you wanna bask

                             Aug- onward: if you love rains and breezy whether….

Travell: You can rent a car and drive through this place or if traveling by flight..take a  flight to thiruvathapuram and from there its 1-1.5 hour taxi drive…

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Terrific 45 mins in Venice -Scary Canal

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A scene at the Train station in Venice, The city with no roads , just canals…Exquisite city in water, including the Grand canal thoroughfare –lined with Renaissance and Gothic places. Gondola and speedboats are only means of travel!!!

 So… These are your tickets for the Gondola, Please roam the maximum of your potential, have lots of fun…See you guys at the same point in the evening by 8:00 pm… B Bye-Said the stout old lady who was guiding 10 of us on a trip to Italy.

It was bright sunny morning…I was standing on staircase in front of grand canal with Gondolas waiting for the Travelers, there was a long  Queue to get into them…I was excited for my voyage to the city. I inquired everything about the Gondolas ,their stations and timing etc  and then journey started…DSC_0801

Me “the Rover” was ready with the MAP to explore the city in and out. Main places in my list were Canal Grande Doges’ Palace, Basilica di San Marco, St. Mark’s SquareCampanile di San Marco Murano and Burano… I traversed all these places quickly to head to Murano and Burano which are at a decent distance from Venice station , I was all alone at the foreign land so I scheduled to cover it in day light to get back to main station on time… I took Gondola…I had to change two Gondola to reach Murano and finally I was in Murano… It was really picturesque, It  is a series of islands linked by bridges in the Venetian Lagoon, northern Italy. It is famous for its glass making.  I had great fun ,I took pictures , visited glass museums with huge art and craft done with colour glass and then I realized I was starving I searched for best place for pizza and reached the one with best rating… I hogged the full Margarita  fungi… it remarked that pizza originated from Italy…  After that I took  Gondola to Burano which is more correctly be called an archipelago of four islands linked by bridges. It is situated near Torcello at the northern end of the Lagoon, and is known for its lace work and brightly coloured homes here I shopped  lace work dresses, sparkle Venetian masks and lot many souvenir for family….I roamed each lane etc. my legs were hurting, the selfie stick which was in my hands through out the travel seemed to be really heavy 😛 … but the travelers in me was still excited…

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I noticed that it was 4:30 by clock, So I thought of moving back.. I inquired the way to go back the shopkeeper instructed me that there is no direct passage to Venice And I need to change two  Gondola in Murano and then at some mid station….Oh thank God! someone guided me right… I was  walking slowly towards Gondola point as I had 4 hours to reach back to station as the train was at 8:00 pm . I was pretty carefree and relaxed…Eventually I reached to the queue to take the gondola there were lot many people like me waiting for the Gondola because Burano is little segregated point and not too many gondolas come that way. After half an hour of waiting ,One gondola came, unfortunately it could accommodate in it…only half of the people were. And then I had to wait for another half hour ,finally I got into one.… It was so rushy and crowded that  I was hardly able to see outside Gondola to identify my drop point. I was all dependent on the announcement . It was too congested and on that being  little short heighten in front of Italians  ,I was feeling suffocated to breath… It was all people around my head.. No escape to fresh air…Finally they announced that the next stop is Murano… I got down .Then I took another Gondola to mid station as informed by person at Burano restaurant. It was 6:30 by then , Dusky sky was getting darker..I got into the Gondola to some mid stop(stop between Murano and Venice).The gondola had two parts one was covered with glass and other was the open deck area. I hastened into it,it was packed like hell .I was on the outer side where cold sheer breeze of November was cutting through face . My hands were freezing cold . I could not even keep hands in the pocket of jacket since with one hand I held my bag and with other I held a iron bar to balance myself from falling  as gondola shakes in water.It was numbing to stay there for long so I thought of walking to the glass area by crashing the crowed by my head. Finally I reached inside part of gondola which was warmer, cozy and snugly. I was standing through out the the journey as all seats were occupied. The longer you stand the heavier the bags seems.And yes i was very tired.

Announcement- People to board gondola to Venice may get down.

Huh..Now it was final ride to Venice station…  thankfully Final one.

But things were ready with a twist..

It was 7:00 o clock… I enquired if any gondola is coming but the gondola was about to go after 20 mins..Which was clear indication that I cannot catch my train if I’ll  go by gondola.. I phoned the guide to inform that I am on the way and will join the group in some time. She suggested it’s better to take speed boat otherwise you cannot reach the Tramp on time. So I asked  Speed boats they were charging 70€, which was really ample amount to pay.. I stride all the way from first speed boat to last to negotiate on price … Then finally I got one gondola in 50€ with heavy heart I agreed to it.

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It was Such a de-stress that I got speed boat..and I was relaxed that I will reach in may be  next 20 min… But its not always as the name suggests .  I realized ,the speed boat was not so speedy  I felt may be he will raise the speed gradually but he went on slow. I wondered if he was doing it deliberately.. I asked him for speed. I told the rider that we might miss out tram at this speed , I requested him to be little faster. He told me madam  this is the maximum speed of boat. Oh gosh!!! it was such a mind wrenching situation..

It was darker and colder . Speed boat was travelling bridge by bridge through the canal at dark night in Venice. I was just not sure of the routes because the route was not  the same as it was when I came towards this direction in morning. Slowly he took the boat to the really  dark side of the city where I could see only my boat in mid of canal with black water below and dark sky up. There were absolutely no lights, sides of the canal were old architectural, Gothic  structures around. I was scared with the thoughts that he will loot money from me and my suspicion warned me that he has dark intentions that he will trap me in some old building and will cut and sell my parts…I was scared that I will never be able to return to the day light and my life I was wondering no one will get to know where I was after that last Venice trip… Then I my eyes laid on few men sitting outside the closed shop at the side of canal.. I supposed them to be his partners and my heart was waiting for him to stop at those shops to meet hid partners and to execute the dark plans. Boat dint stop and he kept riding to more narrower routes in that canal… My heart was pumping hard…I could not say anything to him because I dint want to let’s peed boat rider sense my fear… I kept waiting to see little light with expression of no fear at face..It was almost 45 mins I was in speed boat. Eventually I saw full light busy point I front and it was the Venice station. Huh thank God I was safe..I quickly gave him 50 euro and ran without looking back…But I was still not on my tain. It was  7 :53 I rushed all third the stairs to my trains platform and saw the guide waiting for us. I Entered the train at 7:58 took seat and train started. I was saved by 2 mins…. My world revolved in those 45 mins.Sometimes the things that are beautiful in day light are scary at nights and specially when you are in negativity of your brain.

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Hey Girls out there, this is a quick note to help you dress up wisely this wedding season in your budget. There are lot many things to buy to look just perfect from Top to Toe and lot bucks need to be spent…huh, so here you can find smart ways of bringing out Royal fashionista in you with wise shopping .Keep occasions in your mind to mesmerize everyone by your vogue…….Let’s take attire, jhumka, bangles, makeup and heels one by one,
Clingy Attire: Pick the dresses with different colors and work for each occasion. Spend well and get good dress with perfect a clingy fitting which enhances your figure. Figure talks a lot. Even if your body type is plump or lean, you can look really presentable with the right choice of dress, yes dresses can make you look fat or thin. Spend well and check the dress thoroughly to avoid the day of dress-disaster since it can be really painful and messy if things go wrong with dress at last moment.
We never wear the wedding/event cloths again as they already grab lot of attention at one event and then it’s risky and embarrassing to repeat them, So for small events you can get light Sari carry it with heavy earrings which will make you look classy, gorgeous and later on you can give it to your friend, mother and cousins… Yay!!! You are free from one dress…
Kinky Jhumkas: Jhumkas are the very important part as they draw attention to your sexy neck and beautiful hair, so please be very choosey for them… You can always go for heavy work jhumka for your heavy dresses and same is the key mantra for carrying light work dresses to club then with heavy jhumka….it’s always catchy. But DO NOT spend much on Jewelry, you can easily get really good design with beautiful work in your commercial or street market at cheap price. They are really worth buying with all heavy pearl, nakashi, metals, stone ear cuffs and earrings. Do not go to big showrooms, designers to buy jhumka….Hunt and you can get jewelry which will really tease your guests at the wedding. Here you can buy good jewelry at cheap price. Avoid online shopping for jewelry. You can only purchase jhumkas if you are not neck piece wearing person, this will save your cost.
Noble Neck piece: Heavy Neck pieces only look good when you have either too big neckline for your dress or completely closed collar necks with no design on blouse. You can also go with wearing only earring with no neck piece which will give you sexy girly look. Do not spend much on neck piece too…. You can either get them with your earrings at street market… You can get complete set of earrings and neck piece if you are willing to carry neck piece too.
Enchanting Bangles: Bangles are easily available at small stores with heavy designs, it’s up to you if you want to carry bracelets, you can carry simple and delicate bracelets with round dial heavy watch in other hand or go for really heavy bangles in one hand and watch in other. So your cheap bangles can also save money.
Street market/ commercial shops: They do have all the design, imitation jewelry from all the places and bollywood trends; you just need to hunt a little.
Hot Heels: Buy reliable shoe. Do not try to save your money on shoe, if it’s the average heel which you can generally wear. Since taking risk with cheap heels may make you end up falling in front of your guests and you will be disaster and matter of joke at the occasion. Buy reliable comfortable heels which give you freedom to roam, tease, dance and romance. Keep your loyalty when buying heels.
Make up: Girls, do not compromise on make up since what matters most is your skin. It keeps you elegant and gorgeous with and without make up. So love your skin and only use good products. At least for the base (foundation).Your skin is grace of your face.
 You can look for the professionals who do make up for daily soaps and events through your acquaintances, if any. Not always big brands are good sometimes, brands give really subtle make up which make you look little dull and other times they overdo. Also the cost you will be paying will be really high. Try contacting some make up institutes there you can get some professionals who are really proficient at grooming and make up. You can try these and get diva look by paying the lesser money. You saved your money too.
So Girls here were the tips for right places to go for your look. Have a sizzling look at your own budget. Most important is stay confident and smile which adds magical glow and magnetic attraction to you…
Stay Glam stay Royal….

Your Guide to Correct Hairstyle Curls, Retro, bun

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Strapless dress with sweetheart neck: Side buns are the best option to go for dresses with sweetheart neckline.

If you do not prefer to tie all hair, you can opt keeping all hair open with a wave.

Steps to make side bun:

  • Prefer to make the bun with unwashed and messes up hair
  • Make a side partition in hair , keeping more hair toward the side where you want your bun
  • Sweep hair toward opposite side(towards the side where you need bun) and secure them with elastic to form a pony
  • Now make the bun with either splitting the pony in two sections and rolling them towards the base of pony it make a loose brain and role it towards the base of pony, secure it with a pin. Twirling the hairs will make a looped bun
  • Apply hair spray to keep it neat and firm.Classy side bun is complete.

Boat neck dresses: Sophisticated side ponytail with a wave carried with small stud earring or long feather earrings make you look really royal and it defines your face line too.

 Steps for side wavy pony tail

 

  • Day old hair is good for this hair style as it look s good and messy. If your hair is not naturally wave, curl 3 inch hair with curling rod.
  • Tease and side comb your hair. Leave the front small section of hair and one small section on the other extreme side.
  • Fasten the rest of the hair with elastic band, and twist and wrap untied hair section over the pony, again wrap the other side hair on the pony.
  • Leave a very small section of curly hair in front, and your side messy pony is ready.

 

 

 

High neck dresses or turtle neck dresses: Ballerina bun on the top of head is the best to give you height with classy look. High ponytail also provides elegance.

Steps for ballerina bun:

  • Wash your hair, dry them up for more polished ballerina bun, second day also provide textured look, So choice is up to you.
  • Pull your hair in pony tail.Brush your hair and if they are too frizzy you can apply hair serum to smoothen strands
  • Pull you hair though bun styling tool or styling band
  • Roll hair towards your head to the base of the pony
  • Twist the hair in circle and secure the meeting ends with bobby pin And ballerina bun Is ready

 

 

Halter neck dresses: French pleat or fish tail braid are best suited on halter neck dresses as they provide sexy yet elegant royal look.

Steps to Fishtail braid

  • Make a low ponytail and secure with disposable thin elastic.
  • Further Divide ponytail in two small sections
  • Take a small section from outside of left pony section; pull it across top of left pony over the right ponytail.
  • Take small section of right pony and repeat the vise a versa for right pony
  • keep performing same for left and right pony one by one til 3-6 times until you are done with all hair.
  • Now secure end with second elastic and cut the first disposable elastic used before starting braid.

 

Square neckline with cap sleeve: twisted tiny braid ending at low bun give mesmerizing look

 

Steps to fish tail side low bun

  • Start curling your few sections of hair
  • Braid a basic loose fishtail
  • Secure it with elastic
  • Roll braid from the root in loose circular motion to create low bun and secure it with bobby pin and hair spray.

 

 

 

 

 

V neckline dresses: Bouncy blow dry hair are must to do for this neckline, large curls too are good choice for this neckline or a Side ponytail

Steps to large curls:

  • Make a high pony tail with a firm elastic band,
  • Split pony hair in 5 sections
  • Take one section roll whole section around curling rod and keep it for 5-10 seconds
  • Repeat the process for all section
  • Untie your hair and you find nice bouncy curs,
  • now spray al little hair medium hold spray(hair hardener or curls setting spray) and you are done to flaunt your nice curls whole day

Round neckline: Steps cut hair, pinned lock, short hair, free flowing or free style hair, it makes you more exotic if u keep hair away from face, pixie look is suitable for short hair.

Steps to blow dry and free style look:

Before starting make sure hair are not tangled

  • Wash your hair with regular shampoo, better if shampoo contains moisturizer…
  • wipe them with towel just to avoid dripping,
  • separate hair in to small sections, smaller the section faster you can blow dry,
  • Start drying from top roots from 15 cm away from scalp. Do not blow dry in upward motion, move towards downward sections of Hair , Do not dry them completely with too much heat as it may lead to dry and frizzy hair.
  • Now detangle your hair, if any tangled, Apply anti frizz serum if required and finish drying with cold air which will lock the shine and smoothness.

Unglorified or Appreciated – Integrity of Indian Women

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Image1_youtube-screengrabAre you a working women?….

This simple question brings happiness and relief at the face of a women who is an entrepreneur, a teacher, a doctor, govt. official, from fashion industry or NGOs etc. as it fills them with pride but the same question hits the emotions of a homemaker, artisan, labor, weaver ,women in agriculture fields, and at other low/unpaid jobs. They really work hard but are never acknowledged. These women are the backbone of  India’s main economy since their little duties bring the huge difference at development of economic fields like agriculture, textile, corporate and infrastructure.

There are many stories of Indian women wherein they leave their education and jobs because of families pride. Some sections believe that, The women at home is reflection of their prosperity and wealthiness. They connect the royalty and regal with the women at home.Other are the stories of ladies who are forced to work to support the family in poverty to sustain life. Hence forcing them to work and these are generally very low wages jobs , to take a note these are also not appreciated or praised for their support. Some families do not graduate their girl child because they believe that the girl is not going to work after their marriage and hence there is no point of investing in their education.Making the section illiterate too.

On contrary there is another face of the same coin which makes a segment of  Indian Women “Globally Acknowledged”  for their work and success. They are famous for business and art around the world. Naming from Kalpana Chawla ( first Indian women to reach the Space ) , Indra Nooyi(CEO Pepsi co.), Geeta  Menon , Shelly Kapoor Collins(founder of Enscient Corporation ),Bharati Mukherjee (The National Book Critics Circle Award winner ), Padma Lakshmi (Author) to Geeta Phogat (first Indian female wrestler to have qualified for the Olympic Summer Games)…… All these are the Indian women who proved themselves led to economic and cultural development of India

The challenge is to balance and make the society to think at the same level. Women can only be more participative if they are allowed to move forward to achieve and aspire for more. We should  respect their effort , dignity and integrity towards the basic duties they are fulfilling selflessly .A true guidance, motivation and education can lead to many more kalpana Chawla and  Indra nooyi  .

A huge difference can be made if we think to take few step from the angle of law and government, authorities and awards for recognizing women who are directly or indirectly contributing to the country.

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If you can feel beauty, rhythm and happiness, Yes you are in Kashmir…

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Main Attractions in Kashmir
• Dal Lake: is a beautiful scenic lake with mountains around and greenery on the banks captures you heart in Kashmir. It has beautiful shikharas/ house boats giving the very essence of Kashmir. You can cherish the floating market through these shikaras and can buy jewels, pure saffron and Gulkand.

• Shalimar garden, Nishat Garden, Pari Mahal:
Shalimar garden: The royal Shalimar garden shows the excellence of Mughal architecture and was used by Emperor Jahangir and his wife as their summer residence.
Nishat Garden: the beautiful landmark Nishat garden is a terraced garden built in Mughal style. This also displays the basic Persian style garden architecture. The massive snow topped Pir Panchal range also runs close to the garden which can be seen from the garden.
Pari Mahal: “house of fairies” is located near city centre, the sight has beautiful lawn, spring and ruins Buddhist monastery before mid-1600s.

• Gulmarg: “The Meadow of flower “is the most beautiful and must go place in Kashmir. Gulmarg Gondola is the longest cable car project in the world. From the top of the hill you can have breath taking view with snow all around. Magnificent Gulmarg is place for adventure lovers. You can enjoy skiing and snowboarding with trained experts.

• Sonamarg: “The Meadow of gold” is exceptional and spectacular view .Sonamarg is famous for snow capped mountains green valley and charming beauty of Kashmir which draws tourist from around the globe. Sonamarg is also a base for trekking. The place is more pleasant with dense forest and alpine trees.

• Pahalgam: is another beautiful hill station with various activities which will give you adrenaline rush with activities like camping , rafting and trout fishing .It is also famous for stay place of people who visit Amarnath .

Little more 
Kashmir is involved in bollywood from 60s till now. The very beautiful picturesque locations were shot for the famous movies and songs like Highway, yeh jawani hai deewani, Jab tak hai jaan (shikara and Gulmarg ),Kashmir ki kali, jai jai Shiv Shankar song(Gulmarg temple) were shot in Kashmir.

Do’s in Kashmir
1. Carry mobile with postpaid connections, since prepaid SIM from outside states are not operational.
2. Book hotels prior to your travel if you are travelling in month of April to July.
3. Make sure your hotel provides hot water, electric blankets, since whether is unpredictable and it really chilling at times.
4. Do get clicked in traditional Kashmiri attires in Dal Lake Shikaras, but bargain beforehand for price.
5. Gum boots, rain jackets and feather coats can be taken on rent to travel Gulmarg etc.
6. Gum boots, rain jackets and feather coats can be taken on rent to travel Gulmarg etc.
7. Carry basic medicine.

Don’ts in Kashmir
1. Do not pay without bargaining.
2. Do not book houseboat at very first day; enquire about price, food and other details beforehand.
3. Do not travel at the places which are restricted by BSF or government.
4. Most important is “Do not worry” Please enjoy your trip

Food : The mild in taste and reach in flavor Kashmiri cuisines and specialties are alluring appetizer .Instead of normal Tea , take a Sip of Kashmiri kehva – A green tea prepared with saffron, walnut etc .Let your buds taste Kashmiri pulao, Rogan Josh, Wazwan for Non vegetarians as its prepared with meat base(lamb, chicken and fish)

People: Very sweet people of Kashmir will make you fall in love with them. The sweet faces with smile will win your heart.

How to travel: Kashmir is very easily accessible from all means of transport. You can travel by flight, train, bus and car.

Best time to travel:
Summer and winter season have their own beauty in Kashmir.
Summer lovers -April to October, in summers you can enjoy the green valley, blossom spring, slight cold weather and golden hues autumn
Winter lovers -November to March, the winters will give you complete pleasure of viewing snow capped mountains, skiing and snow land Gulmarg.
So here, you are ready with all the details in and out .Pack your bags and view Heaven on earth-Kashmir.
Map to destinations:

My Advice: Go and explore, there is lot more to Kashmir that you could ever imagine.

Permanent Make up

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One way to stay beautiful forever

 Pallavi Singh, Bangalore

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Presentable looks is mantra to impress everyone around, first impression is last impression and its basis of attracting everyone around. All the eyes should stick at you for once when you walk inside a room, party or event. But do you look that perfect??? Um-mm no Not always, may be because sometimes you don’t have time to get ready, may be already you are rushing late , you dint get time to visit your parlor , it’s raining so make up won’t stay and its sunny u might look lethargy… oh then what is the way to sneak out of these genuine reasons which end  up making you compromise on your looks , one Magic for all such excuses is Permanent make up, Yes its true you can get permanent eyebrows, eyeliners, heavy eyelashes, blushed cheeks and perfect pout lips by permanent make up for really long duration. It can end up to years.

Beautiful Permanent make up:

The permanent, safe, natural looking cosmetic is Permanent make up. Through pins color pigment are induced in to skin top epidermis. These pins are ultra thin and the pigments used are laboratory tested. Its optical cosmetic do worry it’s NOT surgery

Eye brows: Eyebrows can be made thick, black or brown and reshaped. It’s very beneficial for people who have very light eye brows or have cut in eyebrows. The appropriate eyebrow shape and size can appear to lift a person’s eyes creating a more youthful appearance

Eyes: You can get permanent liner and Kajal applied. It gives beautiful shape and clarity. It’s very blessing for people who use lenses or who have really weak eye sight since if you wear lenses general liner and kajal smudges and sometimes it spills inside the eye .its tedious task for weak eye sighted people to apply liner or kajal since they cannot wear glasses while applying which makes the vision hazy and peculiar to apply kajal liner or mascara. So here is the solution, permanent eye makeup

 

Eye lashes: gaze looks better when it’s outfitted with a thick set of eyelashes, delivering a shiny, defined finish that works to extend your length, by permanent eye lash make over you get beautiful dense lush eye lashes.

Lips: Many of us want prominent, fuller, Lovely red lips, perfectly shaped lips. Lips are an important beauty feature of the face. They form a smile and show emotions. They help “frame” a person’s teeth and determine attractiveness. Thick pout lips are in trend these days. Permanent make up can give fuller lips. Your lips will stay in the natural color you choose with lip liner be it day night rain etc  

Cheeks: Girls if you are not good at applying blusher or if you are too busy but still wants to look naturally pink and gorgeous, Here Is a way to get cute pink shade on your cheeks

Advantages: Permanent Make Up runs and does not smudge even after waking up, after dancing, swimming, after sports…. It is 24 hours a day perfect
– The piercing with the needle stimulates the micro – circulation and hence the cell activity: wrinkles are reduced (especially around the mouth).

Disadvantages:

Permanent makeup it is a cosmetic procedure and must be performed by a licensed, trained professional. Below are the few disadvantages

  • Unsterile equipment and needles can be risky as they can lead to infections such as hepatitis and staph bacteria.
  • Scarring and Allergic reaction.. If your skin is prone to get scars, you may be at risk of keloid formation (these are scars that form beyond normal boundaries). Allergic reactions are rare, allergic reactions to the ink used in permanent makeup can be serious, as it’s difficult to fully remove all of the pigment. 

Removing permanent make up:  it cannot be removed at will, it should look natural at all. There are a number of techniques to try and remove pigment: Saline, clay, laser, glycolic acid is among the most known.

If it pains: slightly painful, many people find it painful and discomfort, but again it depends on your ability to bear pain. Tattooing also pains but people got for it too. So girls you can think of going for permanent make up

Duration: generally it stays 3 to 5 years but some time you need to get revisit then once in 12 months to confirm if the color is not eliminating as skin renews itself

Do’s

  • Verify before deciding the professional for permanent make up as it .It depends on the competence and experience of the stylist as well as the quality of the color
  • You should adequately inform yourself: The result of this treatment can be very alluring.
  • Get tested for pigment or color reaction, may be at hidden part of year and it does not give allergy you are open to get permanent beauty
  • It depends on the competence and experience of the stylist as well as the quality of the colors.
  • Needles should be new and sterile for each client, needles should be opened in your presence
  • Disposable sterilized one-time use machine parts should be purchased by the artist, and disposed of in a sharps container immediately after the procedure has been completed.
  • disposable one-time use aprons and gloves should be new for each client
  • The technician should be clean and neat.
  • Disposable one-time use chair/bed covering should be new for each client.
  • The room or treatment area should be in an area free from other contaminants

Budget: The price is  based on the part you are going to make up, general price for permanent make up is approx 6000/- in India.

The results will be really  beautiful with graceful looks … Go try it…

 

Be Fashionista at Weddings With Cheap and Expensives

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Pallavi Singh, Bangalore

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Hey Girls out there, this is a quick note to help you dress up wisely this wedding season in your budget. There are lot many things to buy to look just perfect from Top to Toe and lot bucks need to be spent…huh, so here you can find smart ways of bringing out Royal fashionista in you with wise shopping .Keep occasions in your mind to mesmerize everyone by your vogue…….Let’s take attire, jhumka, bangles, makeup and heels one by one,
Clingy Attire: Pick the dresses with different colors and work for each occasion. Spend well and get good dress with perfect a clingy fitting which enhances your figure. Figure talks a lot. Even if your body type is plump or lean, you can look really presentable with the right choice of dress, yes dresses can make you look fat or thin. Spend well and check the dress thoroughly to avoid the day of dress-disaster since it can be really painful and messy if things go wrong with dress at last moment.
We never wear the wedding/event cloths again as they already grab lot of attention at one event and then it’s risky and embarrassing to repeat them, So for small events you can get light Sari carry it with heavy earrings which will make you look classy, gorgeous and later on you can give it to your friend, mother and cousins… Yay!!! You are free from one dress…
Kinky Jhumkas: Jhumkas are the very important part as they draw attention to your sexy neck and beautiful hair, so please be very choosey for them… You can always go for heavy work jhumka for your heavy dresses and same is the key mantra for carrying light work dresses to club then with heavy jhumka….it’s always catchy. But DO NOT spend much on Jewelry, you can easily get really good design with beautiful work in your commercial or street market at cheap price. They are really worth buying with all heavy pearl, nakashi, metals, stone ear cuffs and earrings. Do not go to big showrooms, designers to buy jhumka….Hunt and you can get jewelry which will really tease your guests at the wedding. Here you can buy good jewelry at cheap price. Avoid online shopping for jewelry. You can only purchase jhumkas if you are not neck piece wearing person, this will save your cost.
Noble Neck piece: Heavy Neck pieces only look good when you have either too big neckline for your dress or completely closed collar necks with no design on blouse. You can also go with wearing only earring with no neck piece which will give you sexy girly look. Do not spend much on neck piece too…. You can either get them with your earrings at street market… You can get complete set of earrings and neck piece if you are willing to carry neck piece too.
Enchanting Bangles: Bangles are easily available at small stores with heavy designs, it’s up to you if you want to carry bracelets, you can carry simple and delicate bracelets with round dial heavy watch in other hand or go for really heavy bangles in one hand and watch in other. So your cheap bangles can also save money.
Street market/ commercial shops: They do have all the design, imitation jewelry from all the places and bollywood trends; you just need to hunt a little.
Hot Heels: Buy reliable shoe. Do not try to save your money on shoe, if it’s the average heel which you can generally wear. Since taking risk with cheap heels may make you end up falling in front of your guests and you will be disaster and matter of joke at the occasion. Buy reliable comfortable heels which give you freedom to roam, tease, dance and romance. Keep your loyalty when buying heels.
Make up: Girls, do not compromise on make up since what matters most is your skin. It keeps you elegant and gorgeous with and without make up. So love your skin and only use good products. At least for the base (foundation).Your skin is grace of your face.
 You can look for the professionals who do make up for daily soaps and events through your acquaintances, if any. Not always big brands are good sometimes, brands give really subtle make up which make you look little dull and other times they overdo. Also the cost you will be paying will be really high. Try contacting some make up institutes there you can get some professionals who are really proficient at grooming and make up. You can try these and get diva look by paying the lesser money. You saved your money too.
So Girls here were the tips for right places to go for your look. Have a sizzling look at your own budget. Most important is stay confident and smile which adds magical glow and magnetic attraction to you…J
Stay Glam stay Royal….

Counting Koruna to be King

Fiction, travel

( Czech Republic Koruna-CZK is Czech currency)

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Chilling wind combing the hair and  few Sun-kissed areas in front of a Castle with Bohemia and Gothic architecture.People viewing the march-past by peeping inside the gate of the huge Castle

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Two men dressed in soldiers and kings adviser attire making their earning by requesting minimal amount in their begging bowl from the people to dress them with crown, shawl and sword as their king.Far behind the crowd there was a man wearing the hoodie noticing every person getting dressed by those two men. His curious eyes were noticing the wallets, begging bowl,cash people putting to begging bowl.Silently he went to many people but instead of saying anything he turned around with reluctance. Observing him with these weird action were Inside raising my suspicion about him. Then it was our turn we dressed like a king , got our picture clicked and we gave him 50CZK(Czech currency)and then we headed towards other portion of the castle and this man started following us, with time he tried to come really closer to me and asked in low voice “I followed you guys because I felt we share the same country so its comfortable to ask you guys .Actually I am eager to get clicked in kings attire, can you please tell me how much are they charging?” His words at one place gave me relief from my suspicious thoughts on the other side tornado of my anger was touching sky ..Still I replied with polietness”Its up-to you buddy , you can pay whatever you feel like , they are not forcing for particular amount”. Then he left at a speed of spark as if he will become the real king of the Castle and left me wondering that this creep was looking at the bowl, cash and wallets to make out how much they are charging and if he can afford it. 😦 I wonder why I meet such people.

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Little Embarrassments -Elegance to awkwardness

Fiction, humor, Literature

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An old lady wearing long coat, knee high-boots and winked eyeliner gets into the train at station in Prague.
She looked around and found one seat near the door. Melodious whistle,train chugged and haul out of the station towards the further route.,She started reading the newspaper with pause in her lips and  supremacy in her eyes. These gestures were enough to understand her introvert nature. A few stations later, it was announcement for a stop , she stood up and got off the train at her station. Abruptly, She turned back in a hurry and stepped in to the train with a sheepish grin(smile out of stupid mistake) which was reflecting the awkwardness she was feeling on getting down at the “WRONG Station”. Now she was smiling at the every person in the train to ease her stupidity  among the people who noticed the mistake of this wise women.

Small wrongs with  hidden smiles. Lovely yeah … how we look and smile suddenly after falling on ground, spilling coffee on our clothes at workplace,unintentional noise through our polythene sheets at silent places,with are crunchy food making noise at theater, blowing nose in public,being sophisticated after burpinggg grrrrrr…. keep enjoying the little wrongs